Monday, February 2nd, 2009 by Alyice
It’s been hard to think of the positives when we’re finding our lives affected so strongly by the recession—lost contracts, lost hours, lost insurance benefits, loss of income, higher cost of living. After having gone through a stock market crash, 2 lay-offs and 3 job relocations over the past 9 years, we’ve depleted our savings. Coming to South Dakota, we had hoped things would get better. And for awhile, they did.

Hope Springs Eternal © Alyice Edrich, 2009
This past year, however, has proven to be difficult and the past month really difficult. But therein lies the irony. Though we’ve had to make some cut-backs in our budget and get more creative with bringing in an income, we’ve also learned to do with less, to finally let go of the “some day” things, to seek the companionship of each other versus electronic devices, to find time for the no-cost/low-cost hobbies we’ve been putting off, and to learn to say no to things we never really wanted in the first place (the distractions) and yes to the things that we really want—the things that bring us contentment and joy and peace-of-mind.
Give thanks…
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Wednesday, January 28th, 2009 by Alyice
When I was a little girl, my aunt signed all her cards with x’s and o’s. It was her special way of making sure I knew that no matter where she was or what she was up to, she was wishing she could be right beside me—that she loved me, no matter what. I don’t know what it was about those simple letters, but they brought far more comfort to me than any of the text written on those cards.
So when I had children of my own, I wanted to carry on that tradition of x’s and o’s but soon discovered that there just weren’t enough occasions for all the times I wanted to share those sentiments. That’s when I came up with a cute song that went something like this: “Hugs and kisses, Kisses and hugs, I’ve got a pretty girl” (or boy). I’d sing, I’d wiggle and dance, I’d squeeze and hug, and I’d sing some more. The kids loved it. Now that they’re older, however, they’d much prefer the x’s and o’s.

Hugs & Kisses © Alyice Edrich, 2009
May this card remind you to cherish the small things in your life, to love more, to hug more, and to not be afraid of change—should you, too, need to tone things down or spice things up to meet someone else’s personality.
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Monday, January 26th, 2009 by Alyice
In today’s society, love is used interchangeably with the word “like” in an effort to show great pleasure for an item, an event, a situation, or even a person. For instance, “I love my new car” or “Oh my gosh! I love that band” or “I loved it when we went fishing off the coast of Maine”. And while perfectly acceptable, the word “love”, when used with its original intention, conjures up such a depth of emotion that it can convey an entire range of emotions, feelings, and attitudes.

Show Love © Alyice Edrich, 2009
Whether you care about a person romantically or platonically may this card remind you to take time to not only say, “I love you” but you take the time to actually show it in your actions. Remember, love is selfless, giving, unconditional, non-judgmental, forgiving, kind, non-restrictive, and so much more.

Love For Men © Alyice Edrich, 2009
As to how you can show love to the ones you care about, try these simple tasks:
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I'm a freelance writer, mixed media artist, SMVA, and the owner of The Dabbling Mum.
