Alyice on March 9th, 2009

Thanks For The Job

When my husband’s hours got cut to part-time back in January and his health insurance was changed to an $8,000 family deductible, I was devastated. My husband, however, was grateful he still had a job in an economy where jobs are scarce. Personally, I couldn’t see being grateful to a company who laid off employees and cut back hours only to turn around and hire a president and a few other upper management positions. It was like a slap in the face. It was as if the owner had laid off x number of people and cut benefits in order to pay for the new salaries. Shortly thereafter, the existing employees were asked to complete twice as much work in half the time.

I wanted my husband to look for a new job because quite frankly, in the workforce he can command double the hourly rate that I can command. Yet, my husband was determined to stick it out. He liked his job, he had respect for the owner and wanted to believe that the decisions made were for the betterment of the company as a whole, and he liked and got along well with his co-workers. On top of that, he was (is) good at his job.

Fast forward a few months.

My magazine/publishing business has nearly plummeted thanks to the economy and I’m struggling to get my art business off ground floor. If it weren’t for my freelance writing business, I’d be beside myself with worry. Add to that, the fact that in our area alone, several companies have folded leaving hundreds—if not thousands—of employees without work. Nearly half the businesses here are cutting back on hours or laying off employees. We have a ratio of 700 applicants to 1 single job. Many applicants are asking for both part-time and full-time work and are willing to work 2 and 3 part-time jobs just to make ends meet.

Needless to say, I am now grateful that my husband has his job—despite the poor health insurance and the fewer hours. And I am grateful that he had the foresight to appreciate what he had (has) when I couldn’t; especially since a good attitude on the job is vital in this economy!

In an economy filled with uncertainty and loss, it’s easy to get caught up in the negatives, to get caught up in the worrying, to stress about the future, and to feel angry about losing everything you’ve worked so hard for. Believe me, I know. I’ve been there, I’ve done that. And I’m here to tell you that a negative, “woe is me” attitude does not help the situation—in fact, it makes matters worse.

I’m ashamed to admit it but I’ve had to work really hard to keep a “stiff upper lip” and hold my head up high during these troubling times. There have been days that it has taken every ounce of my being to look at my life and see something positive—to find peace in the storm.

I am sure that my seasonal depression has contributed to this, but still…I’m used to everything working itself out as long as I, or my husband, work hard and put our faith in the right place. Unfortunately, in times like these, hard work and faith isn’t always enough—some things are simply beyond our control.

So today, I’m working really hard at not letting the circumstances of our economy drown me in a sea of despair. I am choosing to see the possibilities—no matter how small or distant they may appear. And I am choosing to be happy at all costs. Won’t you join me?

Give thanks…

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Hope says:
I understand, things are very much the same here in the UK. I am grateful my husband has a secure job, but I am sad that I cannot find a job. As Daddy used to say, ‘it will all work out’..Daddy was very rarely wrong.

So, you and I together will keep our heads high and try to see the silver lining…as challenging as it may be at times! Good luck, dear…I will be thinking of you!

Hope´s last blog post..Where REAL junk hides
Posted at 4:18 am March 12th, 2009
Alyice says:
Thanks! I didn’t realize the recession hit the UK, too. My mom used to say “what doesn’t break me will only make me stronger” and “this too shall pass”.
Posted at 8:04 pm March 12th, 2009

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